10 years ago…

As we head to a new decade it is common to think how our life was 10 years ago.  Ten years ago 9/11 was unfathomable.  Ten years ago we had a strong, increasing economy. Ten years ago we prepared for all computer systems to crash and a nationwide blackout because the computers would not be able to distinguish between 1900 and 2000.  Ten years ago there was no Curtis and David was still on dialysis.  I worked in the new combined unit of CCU and A3N–going from a novice CCU nurse to an “experienced” critical care nurse.  Jen still lived in Indy and we were able to get together for lunch when we wanted to.  Doug and Amy lived in Evansville.  My parents had already moved to Kentucky, but they came to visit frequently.  Jeremy was still in law school, so I didn’t get to see him much.  Kentucky basketball was still on top, the Colts were still the dolts, the Patriots were a laughing stock of the league, the Red Sox were still cursed.  As we head to this new decade I cannot help but think of all the changes in my live that have occurred in this 10 year period.  I gave birth to our pride and joy.  Jeremy graduated law school and we learned how real the movie “The Firm” was and what really matters in life.  David received the life-saving gift of a kidney from a 19 year old girl in Pennsylvannia named Lori.  I started working as a lung transplant coordinator and my life changed completely.  I emotionally brought my work home with me, for better or worse.  I completed my master’s and became involved in our national organization speaking at the national level about lung transplant.  My dearest friends have moved away leaving a gaping hole in my heart, but God has given me the blessing of additional friends.  The last half of this decade I have seen the loss of family, Grandma, Arnold, and multiple great aunts and uncles.  So as we head into this new decade I will be facing a lot more changes.  My baby boy will soon be heading off to college, and whatever other changes life will bring.  But this I know, God is there through it all.

Christmas Traditions

Growing up Christmas Eve was spent at Grany’s and Christmas Day was spent at Grandma’s. After I got married and started work, it was time to develop new traditions.
  1. Opening our stockings Christmas Eve
  2. Christmas Eve service at church
  3. Milk and cookies for Santa
  4. Breakfast casserole after presents

Go Big Blue! UK2K

Milestone belongs to Cats past and present

By Mark Story / Herald-Leader Sports Columnist


The journey began Feb. 18, 1903. Win No. 1 for the Kentucky Wildcats basketball program came by one, 11-10, over the always formidable Lexington YMCA. On Monday night, the fascinating journey that is Kentucky basketball reached 2,000 wins first — before any other college hoops program — with an 88-44 obliteration of Drexel “This is for the greatest fans in the history of college basketball,” UK Coach John Calipari said. What a trek UK2K has been. Win No. 108 (1921) came when Bill King’s free throw with no time left gave Kentucky its first major tournament championship, 20-19, over Georgia in the finals of the Southern Intercollegiate Athletic Association tournament. Win No. 489 (1946) occurred when a freshman from Louisville walked to the foul line in Madison Square Garden with his hands shaking from nerves and UK’s first national tournament title hanging in the balance. Ralph Beard’s foul shot beat Rhode Island, 46-45, and made Kentucky champions of the NIT. Wins No. 557 (1948), 591 (1949), 648 (1951), 791 (1958), 1,216 (1978), 1,650 (1996) and 1,720 (1998) will always have resonance through the ages — each having made Kentucky an NCAA champion. A series of coaching luminaries are most responsible for UK reaching 2,000 first. Joe B. Hall completed the full racial integration of UK basketball and contributed 297 wins. Rick Pitino took Kentucky from one of its bleakest periods and returned it to national prominence while adding 219 victories. Tubby Smith represented the commonwealth for a decade with unquestioned class, his mere presence as an African-American head coach a statement of the state’s (and the South’s) social progress. He delivered 263 wins. Calipari, the first-year UK coach, says it was on his second day on the job when he began plotting. The goal: Get Kentucky to the 12 wins it needed to reach 2,000 before North Carolina could get to the 16 it required. In his 12th game as top Cat, Cal delivered with maximum efficiency. And, of course, there was Adolph Rupp. All the irascible Baron did for the cause of UK2K was produce 876 of the wins. “A lot of the credit goes not only to the victories that Coach Rupp achieved but the foundation he laid for Kentucky basketball,” says his successor, Joe B. Hall. “He made it easier for me … and the coaches that followed me all benefitted from the aura that surrounds Kentucky basketball. Coach Rupp built that.” The journey to 2K has featured moments around which generations of Kentuckians have spaced their lives. Win No. 771 (1957) came when a Kentucky guard, Vernon Hatton, hit a halfcourt shot as overtime expired to force Temple into a second OT. UK went on to win in three overtimes and, to this day, Hatton’s heave might be the most famous shot in Kentucky history. Win No. 1,039 (1970) was memorable in a far more significant way. When Kentucky beat Northwestern, its starting center was Tom Payne — the first African-American ever to wear the Kentucky basketball uniform. It takes players to win games, of course, and the road to 2,000 was paved by 47 Wildcats who earned All-America honors, from Basil Hayden in 1921 to Jodie Meeks in 2009. Yet UK2K is not just about the great players who have worn Wildcats blue. “From 1903, every player who ever played for Kentucky has a part in this,” says ex-UK guard and second-generation Wildcat Cameron Mills. “This is about the players winning the games 11-10 in the 1920s. It’s about the Fabulous Five and all the great players in the 1940s and ’50s. It’s about my dad (Terry) and the teams in the 1960s. It’s about my era (the late 1990s), and it’s about the guys now. That’s what makes this so cool. It’s everybody’s.” Amid all the winning, the road to 2,000 has featured heartbreak. The Runts fell short. In a national title-game duel of dynasties, the 1975 Cats couldn’t beat UCLA. That dag-blasted Laettner hit that shot. There’s been heartache, too. Point-shaving. A year of NCAA suspension. Allegations of $50 handshakes. That infamous Emery Air Freight package.  Still, in so many ways, Kentucky basketball and its trek to 2,000 wins have been the glue that (for most) has united our often-splintered state. “The fans are the ones I’ve heard talking about this,” Kentucky forward Darius Miller says of UK2K. “They’re the ones who told me about it, really. (Two-thousand wins) means a lot to them.” So what a thrill ride UK2K has been. In Win No. 1,139 (1975), Kentucky defeated an unbeaten Indiana with a Final Four berth at stake. Win No. 1,580 (1994) saw the Wildcats victorious in a game in which they trailed by 31 points — in the second half. Win No. 1,979 (2009) featured a Kentucky player, Meeks, scoring more points (54) in one game than a UK Wildcat ever had. And Win No. 2000 (2009) started with fabulous freshmen DeMarcus Cousins (18 points, 13 rebounds) and John Wall (16 points, seven assists) producing wows throughout Rupp Arena. It ended with a blizzard of blue and white confetti and Adolph Rupp Jr. — Herky — taking the microphone in the arena named for his dad “My father would be so proud,” Rupp said. UK2K being a milestone and not a finish line, Kentucky goes for Win No. 2,001 Wednesday against Long Beach State. North Carolina and Kansas be warned: The race to 3,000 is on.

Watching this game last night provoked a flurry of emotion.  Any rational person will tell you that crying over a sports game is silly and frivoulous.  But it wasn’t the game, it was a lifetime of memories.  A legacy given to me by my Papa.  Watching the Kentucky games on a little black and white TV with rabbit ears in the store.  Seeing Kentucky win a NCAA title in 1996 after being on probation, knowing it would be his last championship.  Going to a bookstore in Lexington to have Jamal Mashburn sign a book for him.  Kentucky basketball is just another sports team with loyal fans, but it is a road to the past.  I don’t remember becoming a Kentucky fan–I just always was.  I remember watching Kyle Macy when I was little.  Having a crush on the Unforgettables–the first team to have their games on TV in seven LONG years.  The crush on Darren Feldhaus, his dad a coach at Russell County High School and my dad playing golf with both of them with no signature or picture to show for it.  Travis Ford–#5, >90% free throw shot accuracy, the best point guard ever.  The team of the 90’s–the best 3 point shooters ever.  I have jumped up an down, yelled, squalled, and cried over Kentucky games.  I was so loud in my college dorm during Kentucky games the dorm gave in and watched the games with me on my little 12″ RCA TV.  The dream of a lifetime–going to Kentucky play IU at the Hoosier Dome, front row seats under the basket with Jen and Matt.  So many UK fans in student section the Wildcat would come over to encourage us.  Of course Kentucky won this game in a landslide.  Last night after Kentucky won, tears of joy and sorrow–wishing my Papa would have lived to see this moment.  He was around for win 1,000.  Seeing my baby boy jump up and down cheering for Kentucky.  A new generation Kentucky fan in the making?  He even said he wanted to play basketball for Kentucky–an even bigger dream.  Maybe we will the game that cinches the 3,000th victory together in about 40 years.

13th Anniversary-Lace

Today is a day similar to 13 years ago.  The snow on the ground and roof, but the roads are clear, temperature of 32 degrees.  13 years ago today I married the man of my dreams.  Who could imagine that I could possibly love him more today than I did 13 years ago.  He has only improved with age.  Tonight we celebrated at Red Robin on Michigan Road.  Curtis loved the refill on fries.  It was a quiet anniversary, but no less special.  Today a special basket was delivered to Jeremy, complete with lace.

Christmas Blessings

Today I got to hug and kiss my godchildren, Josh and Anna.  I can’t believe how quickly they are growing.  I wish they lived nearby so I could see them all the time.  I would love for us to go to the same church, same sports, and celebrate birthdays and other big events together.  It amazes me how much love you can have for a child that you never gave birth to.  However, I have a deep love of the children of people that are very important to me.  A gift God gave us, this overwhelming sense of love.  A love that can make you heart ache or feel higher than any other emotion.  God is love.

Fundraiser

I am not a fan of fundraisers.  However, Curtis really wanted the limo ride to McDonald’s.  So I worked hard, asked everyone at work, church, everywhere.  I managed to sell the 45+ items required for the limo ride.  My baby boy was so happy that all of the hard work was worth it.  Then he was able to throw a pie at his teacher and paint his principal’s hair because he was a top seller.  To me, that is cooler than the limo ride!