What I love about Project Life

This winter has been harsh.  As a matter of fact, it is the worst winter I can cognitively remember in Indiana.  In Indiana, we have snow and we have cold, but I don’t recall it every being constant for the duration of winter.  Typically we will have a few days of “bad” weather, then it is in the 40’s again.  This year I am done with this weather.  I have become sluggish and unproductive the last few months.  Which is rather disappointing since I have been in the house more and our schedule has been less hectic.  Although I’ve accomplished something I’ve never accomplished before.

Today I did seven weeks in my Project Life album (see above to explain why I got “behind” so quickly).  What I’ve never done before is I have documented our life through March 1, 2014.  I’ve captured the details of our life, and for once in my scrapbooks, I exist.  I would make a guest appearance now and then in my scrapbooks of years past, but now my son will have something to remember me by when I am gone.  I am able to look on this year and recall my thoughts and feelings as I live each day and I feel that even though I’ve been less productive, I will be able to remember my life, not just events or moments, but the mundane, daily activities and how much my daily life means to me.

Project Life is new to me this year.  Last year I read, looked at ideas on Pinterest, and bought the Cinnamon edition by Becky Higgins.  What I love about having coordinated pieces is when I have a blank spot, I have coordinating thoughts and cards to quickly fill blank spaces.  I can make the blank spaces “white” space, journaling, or include a thought about the page.  All the colors match and coordinate, no thinking on my part.  Someday I may go back and add a few personal details, but if someday never comes, I have a pretty cool album documenting our life in 2014.

 

Long winter, looking forward to summer

Typically I like the winter.  I wouldn’t say winter is my favorite season, but isn’t my least favorite.  Living in Indiana I have the joy of all four seasons.  If you made me pick my least favorite season, it would actually be summer.  I don’t like temps above 90 and I HATE bugs.  This long winter and 6 weeks of constant white has made me look forward to summer.

So today, while sitting indoors, again, I planned next week, fall break, house projects, and our outdoor living space.  I used my Erin Condren planner to plan each week.  I sit down each Sunday, armed with pens and my planner and think about my upcoming week.  On Sunday I think about what needs to be done, where we need to be, what we will eat, and what I need to buy.  By planning ahead, we eat at home more because my meal plan looks at our schedule.  Everything is on one page, so I feel better prepared for the week ahead.

The fun part of my planner are the lists that I make at the back.  I am constantly thinking and if I don’t write things down, I don’t sleep.  So, I make lists.  I make lists for everything, but once it is on a list, it isn’t rolling around my head keeping me awake.  So as I was helping my husband move snow outside, I was daydreaming about what we would do this summer when in was warmer.  I want this to be the year we finally make an outdoor living space.  We have talked about it for years, but our schedule has always interfered.  To accomplish any goal, you have to make a plan.  So, I made a plan.  Of course my plan is in the form of a list.

We are planning on Fall Break being our main vacation this year.  We’ve considered Disney, and it is still an option.  However, we want to consider other ideas.  We’ve considered flying this year, but I wondered how the drive would be different if we made the drive part of the trip.  If we picked out two different locations there and back, planning to drive about six hours each day, the drive could be fun.  Normally I love green, trees, and nature.  This year, I’m in the mood for the beach.  We had so much fun in Myrtle Beach last year, but it was a little cool.  We haven’t taken Curtis to the gulf side of Florida yet, so that is an option.  I’m not sure what we will do, but I have a list to write down my ideas.  The bonus, the thoughts are out of my head and now I have a head start on planning our vacation.

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My first page completed

I am excited!  I just finished my first page for Project Life 2014.  It was easy, simple, and fun.  Now this is just one page, but I like having the pressure removed of having everything perfect.  I like the kit knowing that the colors match and I don’t have to think.

My Process: Planning

I used a variety of tools to make the page easy to complete.  My iPhone and iPad were my main tools.  I also had help from an awesome service called Oh Life! (https://ohlife.com).  If you haven’t tried it, once you register, they send you an email every day.  Recording daily memories are as simple as replying to the email.  I like the app Momento to gather memories for Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram too.  Now that my memories are recorded, journaling my week is simple and mostly done.  The next app I use is Project 365.  Although my Project Life album isn’t Project 365, this app helps me keep my memories chronological so I can look at a glance.  Finally, I used Marcy Penner’s planner pages (http://www.marcypenner.com).  Using the app Over, I type pictures and journaling I want to incorporate into my layout.

 

My Process: Assembly

I used the app Pic Jointer to make chosen pictures 3×4 and printed them at home.  I then inserted pictures into my pocket page leaving a space to denote the week.  I know this will be stressful for some, but I am not dictating at this time if I use one page for a week or three.  I thought I would let life dictate how many pages I use each week.  I do like the week in review cards that I have seen many people do on Pinterest.  So my upper left pocket was devoted to the week.  My lower right pocket was devoted to my week in review.  This week I made a 6×4 card on my computer.  I copied my journaling from Oh Life! for that week and pasted it onto the card.  Voila! A little formatting, and now my journaling for the week is complete.

 

New Year, New Project

I don’t make resolutions.  It isn’t that I disagree with them, I just make change when I am ready to make change.  So why did I wait until January 1st to start a new project?  Well, it isn’t really a new project, it is an old project done in an new way.  I have scrapbooked since I was in high school in the early 90’s.  Since my son was born in 2002, I have done a yearly album.  I like traditional scrapbooking and I don’t think that will change.  However, I like the idea of a new way to document our everyday lives, not just the events of the year.

Project Life has been around several years, but 2014 will be my first Project Life album.  I like the idea of working on my album a week at a time.  I am not committing myself to recording a picture a day (though I have done Project 365 for three years).  I plan to look at my pictures taken for a week and select the ones that represent our lives.  I like the simplicity of Project Life.  It is just pictures and journaling when I am short on time.  I can add embellishments when I need to express my creativity.

My Erin Condren Life Planner will be my main tool for my Project Life album.  There are several apps I plan to use as tools as well, and I will probably write about those later.  I’ve used my planner for three weeks, and even if I wasn’t doing Project Life, I’m in love.  I used the calendar at the beginning of the month to write down our monthly schedule.  The weekly pages I use as a journal, meal planner, goal list.  Sundays I sit down and write out the meal plan for the week.  I am not strict about my meal plan.  Sometimes life gets busy, or my desire for a particular meal changes.  If this happens, I cross out the anticipated meal, and write in the actual meal.  The list to the side I use to write my goals for the week.  The the calendar section of the week I use to write down happenings of the day.

When I would scrapbook before, I had my Vera Bradley agenda at my side.  I kept the monthly calendar of each year in a larger binder.  When I scrapbook, I have the dates for the special events we attended.  I also journal and have for years, so my journal is also at my side to help refresh my memory on emotions and atmosphere.  I am excited about one book on my desk when I scrapbook.

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Updated organized plan

I love my tech toys, but when it comes to organizing my day, I love paper.  The monthly calendar is the most important tool I use when planning my day to day life.  I need this to see what is going on in my life at a glance.  I love Easy Calendar for my iPad, but it still has not replaced paper.  

The past several years I have used the Vera Bradley agenda.  I love the agenda and I do not have any complaints or recommendations.  This year I decided to try something different.  I plan to start Project Life in 2014.  2013 is a year I would rather forget, so I have not done much memory keeping from this year.  Next year I want to start a new approach that records our every day lives.

After following several Project Life boards on Pinterest, I saw a repeated theme, using your planner to plan Project Life.  You use the planner as you normally would, to plan your life.  What is different, you use the weekly space to plan your Project Life layouts.  The planner used most often, Erin Condren.  So I decided to splurge and I purchased the Erin Condren Life Planner.  

My Erin Condren Life Planner arrived today.  I have been so anxious to receive it since it shipped.  So while waiting on my son during his Boy Scout meeting, I added the events I already have planned for next year.  I love the look and feel of the planner.  The fact it was designed for me makes me happy and the photo stickers just make me smile.  

My planner includes December 2013, so I am going to try and get my Project Life method down this month so I am ready to go next month.  I am excited about what 2014 has to offer.  I am looking forward to the memories to be made and the album that follows to be enjoyed.  

So as I work through this process, I will update more reviews about my planner and if it meets my needs.  I had originally made my planner for next year.  So at the end of 2014, I will write a final review of the Vera Bradley Agenda vs. homemade vs. Erin Condren Life Planner.

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Let it snow!

This weekend we had our first measurable snow of the year.  I don’t think anything beat the site that could be seen with the Eagles and Lions game in Philadelphia.  I don’t think the snow bowl could compare.

When I think of snow, I think of Christmas.  This year my approach to Christmas is very different.  I don’t have all the decorations out, my big tree is still in the attic, I’m not singing in the choir.  Though my public display of Christmas is very muted, I pray my internal display of Christmas glows.  Without the love and peace of God, I would not be here.  My very existence depends on the presence and movement of God.

Nine things about me

I was given #9, so here are nine things you may not know about me. Although I find this difficult because I think I’m pretty much an open book.

#1 I am shy. If you know me well, I rarely shut up. If you remember me in the beginning, I probably didn’t talk much.
#2 I LOVE German food.
#3 I can’t make gravy. Very disappointing with my southern heritage.
#4 I used to help my grandparents do the monthly tax tally for their general store.
#5 I LOVE cars. I love muscle cars and classic cars are my favorite.
#6 I love to cook and I don’t think there is a pie I can’t make. I almost never use a recipe and I rarely bake.
#7 I had one of my recipes published by Mary Engelbreit (pretty funny for a girl that doesn’t use recipes)
#8 I love Earth science. I love stars, constellations, and the Milky Way. I love seeing the different phases of the moon. I can look at rocks for hours and I like identifying trees by their unique features. I love sand, water, and mountains. I’m a big fan of nature.
#9 I love nature, but I have a black thumb.

In summary, I’m full of paradoxes.

Oscar Winston Fitzgerald

Oscar Winston Fitzgerald, the best little, four-legged, red-headed dog in the world. He was our Oscar, he was our boy, he was our little pride and joy. He was our Oscar. He captured our hearts immediately and instantly loyal.

He was Jeremy’s dog, but I didn’t love him any less. He spent hours sitting in the office chair while Jeremy studied. Every morning he would faithfully lay at Jeremy’s feet in the bathroom. The miles he has walked following Jeremy in the house is amazing. 

How he loved to snuggle. His favorite person, the one with a blanket. 

When Curtis was born, he became his protector. He walked many miles at Curtis’ side too. He loved Curtis’ bath time, especially the massage after his bath. He would lay on the blanket expecting a massage too. 

Oscar LOVED cheese(but what dachshund doesn’t) He could smell it from anywhere in the house. He was German, and he loved his sauerkraut. He loved the warm sun. Some days he would lay in the backyard for a little bit soaking up the rays. He loved a car ride, sitting on Jeremy’s knee and watching the world go by. We had the Oscar snot all over the windows to remember his joy ride. He loved to take a walk. He was so well behaved he could have easily been walked without a leash. He waited daily to bark at the mailman. I’m not sure how he knew it was the mailman, but he patiently waited at the door for the opportunity. But he didn’t just patiently wait for the mailman, he would patiently wait at the door for Jeremy to come home. 

Oscar was full of love and devotion. When we brought our baby beagle home, he was a bit annoyed, but took Lucy under his guidance and taught her how to be a good dog. His patience was tested even further when Scruffy joined our household, and being the devoted dog that he was, he guided Scruffy too. 

I will miss the ridge at the end of his nose. I’ll miss his hair toupee. I will miss his classic dachshund snort when he was displeased. I’ll miss cuddling with him on cold winter nights and how excited he got to open his Christmas stocking. I will miss how he would head butt my chest when I stopped petting him. I will miss the jingle of his tags and the click of his nails. I will miss him most of all. 

Oscar made us laugh, always made us feel loved, and rarely made us angry. Oscar loved much, and we loved him right back. He owns a piece of my heart that is all his. I am thankful for years of memories. We are blessed.

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Baseball Opening Day

I love baseball season. This is Curtis’ sixth season (Yankees, Marlins, Pirates, Indians, Cardinals, Dodgers).  I love the kids, atmosphere, game, parents.  I enjoy watching the kids play better this year than they did last year.  I hope Curtis plays baseball at least through high school, but I plan to enjoy it as long as he does.

 

They didn’t have green things in her day

I am not that old, and at my age I remember: bottles returned to the store, drinking water from the creek and water hose, one black and white TV in the family room (no not on a TV tray), popcorn was made on the stove, not in the microwave, phones had cords and you only had to push the last four digits to dial your neighbors, escalators were a novelty because they were rarely seen, McDonalds (or really Burger Chef) was a treat because it was so rare to eat out, our vegetables came from my grandparents farm, I have mowed with a push mower (non motorized variety).  I remember watching movies on Laser Discs (first one was Jaws), but most movies were seen at the Drive-In and listening to music on 8 track tapes.  Games were played with a board or cards, not a controller.  I spent all summer at my grandparents where there were enough kids for two baseball teams and we would play baseball nearly every day, ride bikes, climb trees, and swim in the lake.  We were rarely inside on a beautiful day.  If we were inside we were reading or playing with toys.  When I did watch TV it was as a family in the one room with the TV and it was a show that my parents didn’t have to worry about too much sexual content or language.

I LOVE a lot of the modern conveniences.  If you took my Kitchen Aid stand mixer I may have to hit you with my iron skillet.  I am quite the techie, so therefore very guilty.  However I miss a lot of simplicity of 30 years ago.  I guess the lesson is, if you don’t like where the world is today, work on your own family.  I am saying this more to myself than anyone else.  If we take this lesson to our own homes instead of criticizing others, imagine how different the world would be in short order.

Remember after 9/11, families spent time together watching non-violent shows and the American flag hung in front of nearly every house.  Although we said would never forget, when I drive in my neighborhood, appearances are, we already have. 

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In the line at the store, the cashier told the older woman that she should bring her own grocery bag because plastic bags werent good for the environment.  The woman apologized to him and explained, we didnt have the green thing back in my day.

The clerk responded, “That’s our problem today.  The former generation did not care enough to save our environment.”

He was right, that generation didnt have the green thing in its day.

Back then, they returned their milk bottles, soda bottles and beer bottles to the store.  The store sent them back to the plant to be washed and sterilized and refilled, so it could use the same bottles over and over.  So they really were recycled.

But they didnt have the green thing back in that customer’s day.

In her day, they walked up stairs, because they didnt have an escalator in every store and office building. They walked to the grocery store and didnt climb into a 300-horsepower machine every time they had to go two blocks. 

But she was right. They didnt have the green thing in her day.

Back then, they washed the babys diapers because they didnt have the throw-away kind. They dried clothes on a line, not in an energy gobbling machine burning up 220 volts wind and solar power really did dry the clothes. Kids got hand-me-down clothes from their brothers or sisters, not always brand-new clothing.

But that old lady is right, they didnt have the green thing back in her day. 

Back then, they had one TV, or radio, in the house, not a TV in every room. And the TV had a small screen the size of a handkerchief, not a screen the size of the state of Montana. In the kitchen, they blended and stirred by hand because they didnt have electric machines to do everything for you.

When they packaged a fragile item to send in the mail, they used a wadded up old newspaper to cushion it, not styrofoam or plastic bubble wrap.

Back then, they didnt fire up an engine and burn gasoline just to cut the lawn. They used a push mower that ran on human power. They exercised by working so they didnt need to go to a health club to run on treadmills that operate on electricity.

But shes right, they didnt have the green thing back then.

They drank from a fountain when they were thirsty instead of using a cup or a plastic bottle every time they had a drink of water. They refilled their writing pens with ink instead of buying a new pen, and they replaced the razor blades in a razor instead of throwing away the whole razor just because the blade got dull.

But they didnt have the green thing back then.

Back then, people took the streetcar or a bus and kids rode their bikes to school or rode the school bus instead of turning their moms into a 24-hour taxi service.  They had one electrical outlet in a room, not an entire bank of sockets to power a dozen appliances. And they didnt need a computerized gadget to receive a signal beamed from satellites 2,000 miles out in space in order to find the nearest pizza joint.

But isn’t it sad the current generation laments how wasteful the old folks were just because they didn’t have the green thing back then?